Ughhhh!

Feb. 26th, 2007 09:21 am
shipperx: (Aeryn - woman in a hostile world)
[personal profile] shipperx
I have worked all (and I do mean all) weekend on the plans for my sister's <insert long string of expletives here> house.  I still have problems with the back stairwell and the <insert string of expletives> pub she wants in the basement.  The entire upstairs plan no longer works because of the ways that she's changed the main floor... and I'm no where near through... and I'm so sick of this house that I cannot speak coherently about it because it tends inspire cursing and/or a desire to do violence.   

And did I mention that I'm no where near through?

Or that every time she sees the plan that she changes it and I'm already having trouble making the structure work?  And every time she changes something, she has no idea of the 40 other things that change causes in other things?  And that she's irritated because I won't show her the plans in progress any more (can't imagine why [/sarcasm])?

How about the fact that I once told her that I could finish this <insert expletives> plan by "the beginning of March" and she's taken that as an iron-clad guarentee that I'll finish by March first (hahahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)

The truly discouraging thing is that the more I work on it, the more convinced that I am that it's going to blow the budget sky-high and they won't build the thing... and I will have sacrificed months of my life doing something that has driven me absolutely batty for no reason whatsoever. 

Upping my frustration level, this weekend was the fact that I was stuck inside drawing -- all day and all night -- while the weather is freaking unbelievably gorgeousCrystal clear blue skies, warm, and spring-like with the daffodils in full bloom and a lovely breeze--the kind of weather that begs for picnics and just sitting in the sun... and I'm stuck inside drawing this <insert string of expletives> house.

Grr.  Argh.

Date: 2007-02-26 04:03 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thedabara-cds.livejournal.com
It's three days before March 1st, and she's holding you to that duedate when she's STILL making changes to the plans?? What the hell?

*wants to smack your sister upside the head*

Date: 2007-02-26 04:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] petzipellepingo.livejournal.com
I don't suppose you could tell her that after March 1st she's getting a bill for your time...

Date: 2007-02-26 04:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shipperx.livejournal.com
Oh, I fully intend to charge her... albeit only 1/10th (literally) what the architect I told her to hire was going to charge her. And, after I give her the plans, any changes will go under "re-design," in which case she'll have to start over with a new design fee.

I just want the thing done so I can have my life back.

Date: 2007-02-26 05:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] molliemole.livejournal.com
You've put hours and hours of your time into this plan for your sister. What does she do for you?

Date: 2007-02-27 12:58 am (UTC)
rahirah: (Default)
From: [personal profile] rahirah
This is why you should never loan money or plan houses for relatives. :P

I suppose telling her that her expectations are completely unreasonable isn't an option?

Date: 2007-02-27 01:40 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jerrymcl89.livejournal.com
I realize it's what you do, but I can't really think of a worse idea than designing a house for a family member.

Date: 2007-02-27 03:58 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jans-intentions.livejournal.com
We had to split the post for this round since it was so long. Award and comments post one (http://community.livejournal.com/forbiddenawards/33136.html#cutid1), Award and comments post two (http://community.livejournal.com/forbiddenawards/33337.html).

Congratulations all winners!

Date: 2007-02-27 04:18 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shipperx.livejournal.com
Well, to be fair to her, she wasn't calling me with changes this weekend (she did that last weekend). This weekend, at my mother's house, she argued with her husband over changes, but mother told her not to call me with the changes as I might do her bodily harm. She did, however, want to schedule a time to sit down with the contractor to go over the plans... the plans I haven't finished. She really thinks I'm going to finish by the first and... hahahahahaha! Not going to happen. Not even close. Not even physically possible at this point.

Date: 2007-02-27 04:22 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shipperx.livejournal.com
Love the woman dearly. And it's not like she means to be utterly unreasonable. And she is sincere about paying me, but as for reciprocity in other areas... well... she's not so great with some things. I learned that when I had a car wreck ten years ago and before coming to help me go for a rental car, she had to continue looking for beanie babies for her kids for several more hours, then show up, tell me that she's going on vacation and... oh... was there something I needed?

That said, I am pretty much seriously considering demanding slave labor as part of the payment, as I've helped paint half her beach house and I've also helped her move and she's never done that in reverse, so I'm thinking about demanding that she help me lay the new wood floor in my bedroom.

Date: 2007-02-27 04:23 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shipperx.livejournal.com
Oh, I tell her all the time that she's totally unreasonable... it just doesn't sink in very well, and she just thinks I'm being grumpy.

Date: 2007-02-27 04:23 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shipperx.livejournal.com
I cannot disagree.

Date: 2007-02-27 04:24 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shipperx.livejournal.com
Thanks so much! I'm flattered.

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