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Contrary to myth, it's perfectly possible to love both.
I've loved my kittes over the years. Each of them was dear to my heart. Sweet, loving and wonderful. People who don't like cats, have never had a cat actually love them. Because they are wonderfully loving pets, they just tend to love who they love... and not give a shit about anyone else. They are also easier to care for than dogs.
I've also loved each and every one of the dogs I have had and the one I do have. They are open hearted little joyful creatures who crave affection and return it in kind. They're somewhat more demanding (and perhaps a bit more... childlike?) than cats, but it's all love.
The only pet I've had (and I've had everything from cats, dogs, horses, gerbils, to rabbits) that I really would never have again is a rabbit. (Maybe the gerbils, but honestly, the gerbils were easy pets, only real problem being their tendency to devour some of their babies). The rabbit, however, was neither easy, nor affectionate, nor all that up on the idea of being a pet in the first place.
I always agreed with the rule my sister gave about pets to her children. She told them that the only pets they were allowed to have were pets that want to be your pet, that caring for other kinds of animals is a different sort of thing and not one she was signing up for. Dogs and cats want to be with you and to be your pet. If you don't adopt them, they're just as likely to adopt you.
There's a reason they've both been domestic pets for thousands of years. They've evolved to live with us.
I've loved my kittes over the years. Each of them was dear to my heart. Sweet, loving and wonderful. People who don't like cats, have never had a cat actually love them. Because they are wonderfully loving pets, they just tend to love who they love... and not give a shit about anyone else. They are also easier to care for than dogs.
I've also loved each and every one of the dogs I have had and the one I do have. They are open hearted little joyful creatures who crave affection and return it in kind. They're somewhat more demanding (and perhaps a bit more... childlike?) than cats, but it's all love.
The only pet I've had (and I've had everything from cats, dogs, horses, gerbils, to rabbits) that I really would never have again is a rabbit. (Maybe the gerbils, but honestly, the gerbils were easy pets, only real problem being their tendency to devour some of their babies). The rabbit, however, was neither easy, nor affectionate, nor all that up on the idea of being a pet in the first place.
I always agreed with the rule my sister gave about pets to her children. She told them that the only pets they were allowed to have were pets that want to be your pet, that caring for other kinds of animals is a different sort of thing and not one she was signing up for. Dogs and cats want to be with you and to be your pet. If you don't adopt them, they're just as likely to adopt you.
There's a reason they've both been domestic pets for thousands of years. They've evolved to live with us.
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Date: 2012-03-19 02:56 pm (UTC)I remember one of her friends in college had a HUGE pet rat. And, actually, the pet rat was kind of cool. (I wouldn't want one, but I can see where they'd make a cool pet.)
Snakes, however? I have a flat-out phobia about snakes (as does my sister.)
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Date: 2012-03-19 04:40 pm (UTC)As for cats and dog. I have had several cats over my life, and have loved them all. And one dog, who is still alive. Morgan drives me up the wall, but I do like him. But the one thing I prefer a cat, who if left alone for an hour won't go and chit on my bed.
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Date: 2012-03-20 01:00 am (UTC)Then again, one of my favorite bedtime stories when I was growing up was the Rudyard Kipling, "Just So" story "The Cat who Walked By Himself" so of course I'm willing to believe that the cat domesticated himself... but never quite gave up his wild ways. :)
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Date: 2012-03-20 12:59 am (UTC)How's that? ('Cause I'm dead serious).
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Date: 2012-03-20 01:11 am (UTC)Rats? Pshaw! I mean, I wouldn't want to walk up on one by accident or anything, but it's not some deep insidious fear (and if it's a pet -- no fear at all).
Bugs? Well I wouldn't want to be stung by one. I'm not 'yay bugs!" but... it's just a bug.
Spiders? Some are dangerous. But generally they're beneficial in the garden. No problem.
Snakes? PARALYZING FEAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Date: 2012-03-20 01:26 am (UTC)Me. Amazon. Bloody great enormous tarantula walking across the ceiling of the hut we were eating in. No Problemo.
Boots have to be stuffed with socks and shaken out in the morning anyway so that any scorpions don't bite. No problem.
I come within 70 feet of a snake and screamed the jungle down.